Wednesday, February 8, 2006

Humor-It's OK to Laugh

Wow, I haven't written in a while.  I miss writing and there are things I still want to write about but there isn't as much time now that I am back to work.  By the way, work is still very good.  I am enjoying it very much!  I am not tired from it at all.

Anyway, I wanted to write about humor.  Last Friday, we had staff development day.  (No kids, all the teachers in my district gather in one place for workshops, speakers, etc...)  So I saw some teachers that I have worked with that aren't in my school.  One teacher friend who I have been emailing about my condition asked how many kids are in my class.  I told her 16 (very big for a special ed class).  She said-Don't you want to pull your hair out?  I responded-Since it is just growing in-no!  I thought that was funny, but I think she felt badly for putting it that way to me.  I told her not to worry, it's just my sense of humor.  Humor is OK--if someone with cancer cracks a joke it is OK to laugh.  I don't advise someone else to make jokes about it.  But I think it is good when a person with an illness sees humor.  I think it helps mentally.

There is a site called gotcancer.org with shirts that have funny sayings.  These are some of my favorites:

I have chemo-brain, what's your excuse?

Instant Survivor-Just Add Chemo

I love the smell of chemo in the morning.

My oncologist is better than your oncologist!

These are some of the things that crack me up.  Maybe I've lost it, but I think it's a good thing.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi Jackie,
I know that each time I have had to do battle with this disease, a very "black" humor comes out in me.  Ask your mom about when I first had it in '92.  The things that  came out of my mouth really astounded me.  I was so grateful that your mom and Felicia took it so well and always laughed at my jokes.
This time around, the same thing is happening, but I control exhibiting it to just a few teachers and friends who will get it and not be uncomfortable.
So, I can really relate to this entry.
Glad that you are so happy back at work.
Love,
Irene